a bit worried she is upset

[dillonflakes]

yesterday i made plans to go hang out with my friend, i told my girlfriend and well she had plans for us that night, that i didnt know but she said it was no big deal and she wasn't upset
we texted a bit that night and i called her that night and she didnt answer and never called back so i thought maybe she was pissed

this morning she texted me saing she didnt go to work and i called her and she didnt answer again. i texted her saying to call me and she sad she didnt feel like talking because her teeth hurt (she mentioned a few days ago her wisdom teeth were coming in). i asked if we were doing dinner moday and she said probably, and she said she wasnt mad about saturday night at a;ll

do you think she really isn't mad? on friday she was telling me she loves me and all that and being romantic

[basilandthyme]

The alarming thing here is not that she's being quieter than normal for whatever reason. The alarming thing is that you think she's lying to you. You don't trust her to be honest with you.

If you can't trust her, it's time to reconsider the relationship. After all, it's not much of a relationship if you can't trust her to be honest with you about her feelings.

[smackie9]

You dipshit you should have at least offer for her to come along, now she's feeling second place. Ya I get it's good to do your own thing, but there are times you need to adjust your plans. Remember when you have someone in your life, you need to make them apart of your life as well. You need to discuss this with her and set up an agreement that if there are plans being made, to give advanced notice so as to not have this happen again.

My guess she's feeling blue because she wanted to continue the romance from Friday and thought that would be your plan too, but when you made plans with buddy she got a little hurt and it felt like you weren't thinking about her, and were more interested in hanging out with your friend. Get it? good.

[dillonflakes]

You dipshit you should have at least offer for her to come along, now she's feeling second place. Ya I get it's good to do your own thing, but there are times you need to adjust your plans. Remember when you have someone in your life, you need to make them apart of your life as well. You need to discuss this with her and set up an agreement that if there are plans being made, to give advanced notice so as to not have this happen again.

My guess she's feeling blue because she wanted to continue the romance from Friday and thought that would be your plan too, but when you made plans with buddy she got a little hurt and it felt like you weren't thinking about her, and were more interested in hanging out with your friend. Get it? good.

she had to work saturday until like 730 ish so i made plans because i figured we weren't going to hang out

[Mattiemae]

Probably a little mad and her teeth hurt. lol I love it when people can be telling the truth! But other people jump to conclusions and make a bigger deal out of it. She may honestly not be feeling well. Those do hurt very badly.

[confusedguy1012]

It's not your fault that she made plans without telling you.

[smackie9]

I'm not making you take all the blame, you both need to communicate with each other...she shouldn't have assumed you wouldn't be doing anything......I'm giving you crap for not at least offering her an alternative, and adjust your plans so you all could hang out together.

Rule of thumb, ask, never assume.