Don't think he knows I exist..

[Sparkly_eyes]

Hello,

I am hoping to get some insight on this situation.

There is a man I'm very interested in who is a member of the establishment in which I work. I remember seeing him years ago(while I was with my ex at the time), and immediately was smitten, not knowing who he was or anything about him. Fast forward 3 or 4 years.. Who waltzes into the establishment but him! I don't see him often at work, but when I do, I feel butterflies and simply avoid him. He's very cultured, well read, and has had a higher education... Something I have not had myself, so I don't feel as confident as I should and feel intimidated a bit as well. He's not the most handsome man I've seen, but he has this charisma about him and I think about him all the time. I don't think he notices me the way I notice him. I want this man! ;-)
It's not appropriate to say anything at work, and even so, I wouldn't know what to say or if I even should. Please help, need advice!

[basilandthyme]

I have to ask....are you in his league? I know your education doesn't match, but what about ages/sophistication/social circle? Some may call me a snob, but most people do tend to date others who are from a similar background.

You don't say much about yourself, so it's very hard to gauge what your chances are. What qualities do you have which would attract a man of this calibre?

Does he have a girlfriend or wife? Don't judge by the presence of a ring - not all guys wear them.