Originally Posted by
LittleMadam
Im pleased i had the talk now. Once everything has settled in my mind. I completely understand everything - especially with his parents.
Nothing seems to have changed between us.
He kept asking to explain more when i told him i really enjoyed spending time with him.
Why would he want a further explanation to that do you think?
I think he is pleased we have had that talk too. He seemed it. Even though it was slightly awkward, i think we are both understanding things a little better.
Did you tell him you love him?
BTW: Don't ever feel bad about communicating your wants and needs. It's door mat behaviour not to. What? If you didn't talk to him you'd go on under ambiguous terms forever? That's not healthy for you and as long as you enable him to NOT advance the relationship then he won't when he's already getting things that satisfy him as is so do not feel anxious for talking to him about any of this. Afterall if he doesn't advance anything you need to be prepared to either except things on his terms or leave him outright and find someone who will give you the whole enchallada.
Leave it for now and readdress down the line if nothing seems to be progressing.
Last edited by Wakeup; 23-02-14 at 06:38 AM.
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