Is this all girls or just mine?

[confusedguy1012]

Ladies do you care if your guy jerks off? Mine walked in on me and jerking off in the bathroom and started freaking out!

[basilandthyme]

As a general rule, no - I don't care.

However, there is the caveat that his solo activities don't leave him too depleted to have sex with me. Or that he gets so used to his own hand that he can't respond to me. And that he doesn't spend many hours looking at porn.

As in all things, it's about moderation.

[Aquafresh]

I would feel bad (if I cached him), because it means he rather do it with his hand, than with me.

[searock]

As long as his masturbation/porn watching doesn't negatively influence our sex life, I'm ok with it.

Oh, I also probably wouldn't want to actually catch him watching porn. I mean, it's ok if he wants to watch it with me, and also if he wants to watch it by himself... I just wouldn't really enjoy walking in while he was at it. Maybe next time be a bit more discrete with your "me time".

[Starnique]

I would feel bad (if I cached him), because it means he rather do it with his hand, than with me.

Not necessarily. Sometimes you just want a quick nut. In just about all of my relationships, I have still occasionally used dildos or even just gotten myself off. Sometimes I told them, sometimes I didn't. Whenever I did, the guys are turned on. As Basil said, as long as its not getting in the way of our relationship or getting in the way of our love making and we are 100% satisfied with each other, I don't mind. I'm very secure with my kitty box.

I remember I used to get home from work and my Ex would still have the flicks in the dvd player or laying out and I'd be like you got ya self off today? Next thing ya know he's doing all these diff positions with me.

[confusedguy1012]

Okay A) I don't watch porn because I just am not a big fan of fake pornstar orgasms its a turn off B) We havent had sex in at least 3 months because she never wants to so i thought it was was perfectly okay for me to

Also do you guys really watch porn like with your SO

[searock]

There is amateur porn too

Anyway, wow, why have you gone 3 months without sex?! Have you talked about it? Did you use to have a regular sex life? If so, what changed?

[Starnique]

Okay A) Never said you did.

Anyway, I don't see why its an issue for her. She not willing to do it so she shouldn't care. Its just a jerk off. Just do it on your own time and hey, she aint gotta know.

[confusedguy1012]

There is amateur porn too

Anyway, wow, why have you gone 3 months without sex?! Have you talked about it? Did you use to have a regular sex life? If so, what changed?

We had a great sex life but she is pregnant and never ever in the mood anymore and ya we have and she just says its uncomfortable for her so I just didn't push it anymore.

[searock]

Yep, make sure next time she doesn't risk walking in on you... that's not pleasant. Unless you did it on purpose so that she "caught" you and it would lead to a conversation about the lack of sex in your relationship?

[confusedguy1012]

No nothing like that but she also is always home the only way to make sure s he doesnt walk in on me is put locks on the doors

[searock]

You don't lock the door when you go to the bathroom?

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Anyway, why haven't you talked about your (lack of a) sex life yet?

[confusedguy1012]

The bathroom door doesn't lock the old locks on my house kept sticking so i got new handles without locks. Anyway we kinda have she said sex is uncomfortable right now therefore we cant have sex for a while

[hatesthis]

Ladies do you care if your guy jerks off? Mine walked in on me and jerking off in the bathroom and started freaking out!

No don't care and don't care about porn either. Least you were in the bathroom not like in the kitchen or backyard, lol.

[searock]

Oh, I missed the post where you said she was pregnant. Yeah, then all you can do is just wait it out and focus on other aspects of the relationship :-).

As for the masturbation, have you talked about it? I find it strange that she wouldn't be ok with it... there's nothing wrong with it, it's not like you were jerking off to a picture of her best friend or anything... Surely she masturbates as well (or has at some point in her life), I don't get what the fuss was about. Unless she just doesn't want you to do it when she can walk in on you, maybe you should simply be more discrete, perhaps wait until she's asleep or something.

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Did she tell you why she was upset about it?