Pleasuring a Girl

[lime]

My time finally came, she was right there, naked on the bed waiting for me to eat her... but when I finally was there, I found myself lost. All those previous years of sex ed, reading stuff on board much like this one and porno watching didn't help at all.
I didn't find the clitoris nor the G-spot...
and I wasn't sure how I was suppose to move my hand.

Please help

[joseph]

How To Eat Pussy Properly

Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs. Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it?

There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know. I've seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it.

Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.

Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled. Approach her pussy slowly.

Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her.

After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done gently. Tongue-**** her. This feels devine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit.


Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it's presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder.

When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!' There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon.

Just like with cock sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who's a lousy ****, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him. But back to your pussy eating session...

There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger-**** her while she's enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, during or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're ****ing her.

Well, since your cock is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the ****ing. Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. **** her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do.

If you're sucking her clit and finger-****ing her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover.

When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her ****. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm.

Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 orgasms to? She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.

The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down.

A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself.

Check this out man and hopefully it is a good tuturial... Just listen to her and you can share something really special with your female partner(s) hehe just playing hopefully it is singular and not plural

[Illusional]

wow,..haha you didn't write that did you joe? lol. i think that it will basically come down to talking to your gf. every girl is different and they desire to be pleasured in different ways. talk to your gf while you're eating her out and find out what how she likes it. raverboy

[jess]

I have to say, that is excellent advice joseph =P. A little easier said than done, maybe. It takes practice to master it, and luckily I've found someone who has. I tend to prefer one finger though...you don't want too much distraction from the main event, but that's just me. Trust me, learning how to give good head is sooo important. A lot of women prefer it to sex, and there are few men who are truly great at it, so once we find them, we hang on to them. Keep practicing, and good luck!

[mr fark]

so there's a LOT more to the moderator than we know after all
=)

[jane]

I am digging up this thead... WOW.. that is the most detailed directions that I have ever read and completely right on.. that made me almost orgasum reading it! holy crap!

A job well done Joe!

[hysteria]

yes that sounds very good indeed. Might have to try that technique out sometime

[nonee]

yo joe seriously this is sooo true . that was really well researched .. i think i got turned on reading it.. wooo applause

[squirrley]

comes from experience hey? Wheres MVP?

Dude should get some help there...

[UnderAgeLover]

i gave my friend with benefits 6 orgasims in a 1/2 hour. that is essentially what i did. i guess it works. she was impressed. i was too.

[KaWaiiSkYe]

Wow Joe. I'm very impressed..

[KaWaiiSkYe]

I think someone should now give a

'How to give a blowjob properly'

[jane]

hhhmm... that sounds like a good topic for my next class.....

[KaWaiiSkYe]

Yeah. It would beeeee.. but I think I would be asleep by the time you start your class... LoL..