Is what I did considered cheating?

[Wakeup]

and as for that other lady friend, she is blameless in all this.....the RESPONSIBILITY LIES WITH YOU TO CONDUCT YOURSELF AND RESPECT YOUR GF...

Horsecrap! She has no boundaries. She's not blameless, she's a fking enabler. If he lied to her and told her he didn't have a girlfriend then she'd be blameless.

*gets popcorn*

[MandoulinaBrown]

that was cheating. my advice, try to forget it and don't bring it up to your girlfriend. because what happened was not serious. stop talking to "your new lady friend" and try to forget it ever happened. we mush up sometimes and if your girlfriend found out she will just be angry and will never trust you again.

[searock]

all you did was make your GF look bad

Huh? How did he make his girlfriend look bad? He was the one doing the cheating. He made himself look bad.

[michelle23]

Yes it was cheating and whether surf likes it or not you were seen by a LOT of people so a s**tstorm will be created no matter what. One of the guys there prob has a little crush on your gf and he will likely be the one to tell her the truth.

You have also just ruined your own rep and girls now see you as a db so good luck finding a new gf when your girl dumps you.

Cheating is cheating and it all hurts whether its "just a kiss" or sex or even just flirting.. your gf will be really hurt. Long distance relationships dont work. This is a symptom that your relationship is not working so let her go. She will find someone more ready for a real comitment

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Ill just add-the people here blaming the friend are wrong IMO. Ya shes a cunt but your a lot worse OP

[Wakeup]

The people here not blaming the friend are wrong because actually, they're both cunts. As Kingz would say; "Two cunts don't make a right."

[danaself1]

How would it make you feel if she did that to you ? Chances are if she was there and saw you do it, she would be hurt. Yes, its cheating

[cookies27]

Yes, it's cheating. And you're both douchebags for doing it.

You need to tell your girlfriend before someone else does. If you hadn't been seen by a million of your buddies, I might say just leave it as it was only a kiss shared between two drunken idiots. However, since you were seen, you'll come out of this feeling and looking a lot better if you just come clean to her.

You didn't sleep with this woman, but kissing is still cheating. And if you want to keep your girlfriend, you'll respect her enough to tell her and spend the appropriate time and effort apologizing and kissing her ass Best of luck to you x

[smackie9]

Ya it's cheating and well it should be an indication to you that even though things are running smoothly with your GF, you should end the relationship. It's obvious it's not exceptional, because if it was you wouldn't have a need to have a lady friend to give you attention while the GF is gone. Your arrangement has run it's course, it's boring only seeing each other for only 2 days out of the week, and what the hell, you shouldn't be committing yourself to one girl at your age. Be single and have fun.

As for your GF, she's going to find out eventually so you are best to tell her and make your exit.

[stevestone]

It is pretty close!!!!!

[bekho]

You ur hot club girl likes you and made a move on ur bday when ur gf wasnt there. Maybe she got the wrong signal from you? She put herself out there and its kinda up to u to set it straight.

I wouldn't consider it emotionally cheating cos u were drunk. But I think you can use this as an opportunity to re evaluate what u feel and what you want. Can't have it all.

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[lovesaidno]

It was absolutely cheating. You put yourself in the position to cheat, and didn't stop yourself. Regardless if it was your birthday or not, you probably had some idea that she would be there; and most likely had even hoped a little that she would be. I'm assuming that there is more than one club or bar in your town that you could have gone to. Drinking is just an excuse.

[smackie9]

old THREAD!! it's over 2 weeks old the OP is long gone because they got their answer.

[mollymari]

Huh? How did he make his girlfriend look bad? He was the one doing the cheating. He made himself look bad.

True enough, made himself look bad but her too, (his girlfriend) by reflection. It reflects badly on her because unfortunately many assume that when a man or woman strays, they stray because their not getting something they desire/need from their significant other.

[Feetje]

Why are you doing this, youre feeling happy with your gf? But, if i read this, i think there is more than just a kiss. You really like the girl in the club, dont you?
If you want this relationship, than tell her. And see whats happening. And the girl in the club.. Girls like it even more when a guy is in a relationship. She wants you, just for a few nights.
What a sad story bro.... If you're happy with your gf, you shouldn't do something like this..
But, 8 months, its not for so long.. So if you want to be free, and go out, do nasty shit (haha) than do it now, when you're young

[smackie9]

Guys this is an old thread .....the OP is long gone.