How can we still feel this way?

[hdbreaker]

11 years ago I was with a girl we was both sixteen and madly in love but bad for each other, 5 years later I met her cousins and ended up been married to her with a child... me and the ex sort of got over each other (well got used to it) so we thought... until one night before the wedding we nearly kissed :/ I put it down to drink and never thought out of it.

5 weeks ago we had a chat and she told me she still loves me and was gutted when I married her cousin, I guess deep down I still have feelings there even though I know nothing can come of it!! She's made me realise I should not be married or with anyone as I clearly am still hung up..

I guess you will all think I'm a huge plank, and believe me I hate myself for this..

Will we always have that connection?? Can love last forever?

Please be kind people

[searock]

No, that's just infatuation. Avoid her for a few months and you'll get over it soon enough.

She should move the hell on and stop messing with a married man btw.

[hdbreaker]

No, that's just infatuation. Avoid her for a few months and you'll get over it soon enough.

She should move the hell on and stop messing with a married man btw.

Just cannot see why she would say what she did... She has messed by head up big time!

[basilandthyme]

Just cannot see why she would say what she did... She has messed by head up big time!

Because she's selfish and doesn't care about how her words will effect your mind and marriage.