Hey all, I'm new here! I hope you're fine . I'm posting this cause I want to know your opinion on what happened to me. First off, I'm a guy. A nice guy. Maybe too nice .
So, to keep it short, I've always been a lone wolf, till I got to the university, made a group of girl-friends, I fell in love with a girl madly and I won't get into many details because it would take alot of time but in short, I asked her out, she said she liked me a bit, she sent me signs that she did, but then she said she didnt want anything with me. That was my life. It was me fighting for her love for 7 months. She made me think she had a crush on me sometimes, and sometimes it was the complete opposite. I can't count with my fingers the nights I spent crying because she didn't love me. We ALWAYS stayed friends, even if we argued about being together or not most of the time, she never let me go of her life.
Then, she did something (which I found out later it was just to annoy me) that really, really made me mad. I said I didn't want anything to do with her after that and that our friendship was over. A week later, she texts me saying she has a gift for me but she doesn't show up. Next day, I text her, we meet up, and we kiss for the first time. She said we weren't gonna be together but we'd be "friends with beneficts". We spent a month like that. She tested me alot, I was really jealous all the time... My jealousy got to a point where she said we wouldn't be FWB anymore, the semester was ending and we got distant, I waited a week hoping that the same from last time would happen and it didn't. Each week I texted her hoping for an answer, I tried calling her until she picked up and said I was a fake friend and that she never liked me, that what she said one time that she had feeling for me were lies. I was devastated! And I decided to move on with my life. A month later, bam. She texts me "Hey friend."
We got closer to each other till we finally got together. After 8 months, my dream came true. After so many sacrifices, nights spent crying, so many things I did for her... I told her one night, before we actually got together that I knew the things she went through in life and that I was always gonna be there for her and she shed some tears of joy (I believe they were), and we hugged.
BUT... When we were in the relationship, each little argument ended up in her saying "We're over". She broke up with me 7 times in a month!! Until she just said "I'm disgusted with you, don't ever text me again". I was so desperate! I tried talking to her and she never replied. She blocked my phone so I couldn't call her, and everything went to hell... When we were together we always talked about our future and she really seemed to be interested in me being part of her life, she said she was in love with me, she said that guys like me were really unique, she said so many things man!! I believed everything... We broke up on december 1st and on the 24th she texts me for the first time, comes to my house and drops a gift I gave her when we were friends, said she didn't want to keep anything that's mine
Mid january, we wrote to each other indirectly on Twitter as if we were fools!! Why would she stalk me on Twitter! I have a reason, I loved her!! But why would she stalk me if she broke up with me? I decided to do the smart thing and stop stalking her, I closed my Twitter and deleted her number from my phone. 2 weeks after that, I put her number back in my phone and she didn't have me blocked in WhatsApp. I text her "You unblocked me?" And she anwered me "No!!! My WhatsApp got deleted a few days ago, didn't know it unblocked people". And I said "Oh haha. It feels weird to text you, I guess I kinda miss it. Hope you're doing fine... Block me again if you want". She said "Ok." But didn't block me. Next day I sent her a 10 minute long voice note telling her again how much I loved her and that I couldn't believe that everything was gone and then I told her to block me if she wanted. She said she wasn't planning on blocking me but "Since you're gonna keep insisting"... And she blocked me. It's been 2 weeks since that happened, and I decided to move on cause that was not sane for me.
Why would she say she was in love with me if it wasn't true? Hope you took the time to read it and I missed alot of details, important ones, but I don't wanna make this too long... Why would she dump me after everything I did for her?! Thanks in advance for your answers...
Good night.