I want to buy my girlfriend a vibrator

[livingthedream]

Hi girls,

I'm thinking of buying my girlfriend I vibrator to include in, and spice up, our sex-lives, and just wondering what a girls perspective on this is.

I have bought her one in the past, but it was a very good one, and she didn't really like it - it was a bit too over the top.

So now I want to buy just a simple vibrator, nothing ridiculous.

I imagine most will say "talk to her about it, every girl is differnt", but I kinda feel like that kills the whole idea a bit - rather I would just prefer to buy one, and then one day in the "heat of the moment" - if you will - pull it out and use it.

I'm just mainly concerned that she will learn to enjoy it too much, and I will become redundant. We don't live together, so there will be times when I am not there. I don't mean to be so egotistical, but its just hard for me. At the end of the end of the day, I just want her to be as satisfied and pleasured as possible.

What are thoughts on this? Has your man ever bought you a vibrator before, and if so, was it received well/has it spiced up your sex-lives?

Thank you!

[surfhb2]

Only a man would come up with such an idiotic train of thought such as this. Lol

You bought her a vibrator (which she didn't like) and now you want to buy her another and whip it out in the heat of the moment? To keep her satisfied when you're not there? Wow! You're a fvckin genius !

Talk to her first

[fearoflove]

Vibrators sucks IMO. I prefer the real thing.