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Thread: Why Am I Afraid Of Him?

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    Why Am I Afraid Of Him?

    I just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship and am definietlly NOT looking for anything serious. I started this new job and found this guy really attractive. A co-worker told him I found him attractive and well now he's been saying hi to me and to get my attention. I don't know what to do! Its just been so long since I have been in this situation! I get so shy and just look away or leave when he is there.

    I am just nervous of what to say or do. Also I am also afraid of what ih mef he just wants to sleep with me? The last thing I want is for him to speard rumors in the store. I don't know maybe I am making excuses because I am just so nervous and scared.

    I am definietly attracted to him. I always dress up keeping him in mind when I head to work. What should I do to make me not so afraid of him? ALso does him now making an effort to speak to me mean he is interetsed in me as well?

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    If you're this nervous, it's too soon. Just lay off men till you're feeling more balanced.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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    Think of yourself.

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    old thread
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    old thread maybe but the message still stands right.....it is best for her to leave this abusive relationship....

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