i become clingy when we argue

[halifax7889]

today my girlfriend said i can become clingy when we argue. she says i text her and call her alot

i told her i dont mean to but you like to hold the issue in and i want to talk it out

i guess i need to change my ways but its frustrating

i hate waiting 2 or 3 days

i want to talk it out as soon as i can

[basilandthyme]

Halifax, the fact that the two of you arguing is an issue in itself. I believe that in a good relationship, a couple should be able to solve a disagreement before it descends into an argument.

Forget about how you argue for a moment....and let's concentrate on the dynamics which prevent you from solving the problem easily. What's happening?

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Read his other post. His gf is ****ing another dude, while she tells him she is out at the mall with her friends.

OP is obviously very clingy since he is still begging for this bitch.

[basilandthyme]

Aargh....why can't people put the whole #$%ing story in one post!

[smackie9]

Because he doesn't want to hear that he needs to dump the bitch.


Dude there is a reason why she is seeing this guy behind your back.... she likes this guy and she wants to be with this guy.

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And since you are so damn clingy, she doesn't know how to breakup with you....she knows she is going to be bombarded with texts and calls....you won't leave her alone.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

He shouldn't dump the bitch though. He's playing his part as doormat, and doing a fine job at it. Folks like this deserve the misery they bring upon themselves.

[dianet]

u need to meet some more women..