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Thread: Female rapist, possible?

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    Female rapist, possible?

    I met him through one of my colleagues from work. We went out a few times and got on pretty well. We decided we would have sex next time we met – He said he only wanted to do it using a condom.

    When the time came, though, I said I wanted to do it raw – He said “well let’s not go there then, we can just keep doing what we were doing”. But I got angry and said that he couldn't stop me. I forced myself on him anyway. I was so upset, as soon as I was finished I got dressed and went home straight away.

    Was it the right thing to do?
    I mean, I've heard girls can't rape guys because "You can't rape the willing".
    So, was it okay for me to force myself on him knowing girls are unable to rape guys?

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    Many people get aroused or even orgasm during rape. Its just the bbodes natural response to sexual stimulation. It doesn't mean he wanted it or that he was willing or that hes happy about it. You should have more respect for peoples boundaries. Codoms protect you from pregnancy and you both from diseases. It would be wise to start using them at least until your on the pill and you both have been tested.

    You should also apologize to him and ask him did you cross a line?
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    You are rare case. But girls can rape guys. This is 3nd case I hear about. You had no right to do it. You should apologise to guy and ask if hes okay.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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    If he thinks I crossed the line, should I go to the police station and turn myself in?

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    You should talk to him and ask him is he upset about what happened and how you can make it up to him
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    3nd
    I'm so confused.

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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    You should talk to him and ask him is he upset about what happened and how you can make it up to him
    Alright so, I called him and said I was sorry for what happened last week.
    I asked if there was anything I could do to make it up to him and he said no.
    So, I suggested we could have sex again with a condom on.
    Strangely, he hung up on me.

    What did I do wrong ? D:

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    LOL! Thread of the year so far

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    Quote Originally Posted by [Lux]Tori View Post
    So, I suggested we could have sex again with a condom on.
    Strangely, he hung up on me.

    What did I do wrong ? D:
    lmfao !

    you are either a great comedian or have incredibly low EQ.
    either way, thanks for the laughs !

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    Are you busy Saturday night?

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    Quote Originally Posted by asdfg789 View Post
    lmfao !

    you are either a great comedian or have incredibly low EQ.
    either way, thanks for the laughs !
    I'm a very strong and smart empowered woman working as a secretary.
    I am also an extremely important member of the company I work for.

    My boss even said so after our private weekly meeting at his "temporary house".
    He claimed if I wasn't there to serve his cup of coffee every morning, the company would go bankrupt.
    So yeah, I'd appreciate it if you could treat me with the respect I deserve.
    Last edited by [Lux]Tori; 23-04-14 at 02:06 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by [Lux]Tori View Post
    I'm a very strong and smart empowered woman working as a secretary.
    I am also an extremely important member of the company I work for.

    My boss even said so after our private weekly meeting at his "temporary house".
    He claimed if I was there to serve his cup of coffee every morning, the company would go bankrupt.
    So yeah, I'd appreciate it if you could treat me with the respect I deserve.
    raw = respect

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    Obvious Troll is obvious.

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    WOW...I second this being the thread of the century.

    OP I'm so sure you are a valuable employee at your job since your boss told you at your private weekly meeting at his temporary house. Yep...I bet you have a whole lot of VALUE to him.

    Nasty............

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    Not only are there female rapists, they don't get in trouble for it. Even if they kidnap and stab the victim repeatedly.

    http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/sex-crazed-angelina-jolie-lookalike-forced-taxi-driver-sex-stabbed-article-1.1751735

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