Does he just want Action...

[Sorrowfullgodes]

my and my new boyfriend were having a talk about our relationship. It wasn't that long....First I asked him if he still loved me..he said yes.
Then I asked him if he tohught we should break up he said no.
I asked him if he thought we were the right People to go to gether...he Went: I dunno.
Then I asked him how he thought our relationship was going. He said Good.
Then I said: if you could choose to break up, or stay with me, what would you pick. He said to stay with me.
Then we talked about someday getting married......
Then we started to make out...
Then I thought maybe he just said those things cause thats what I wanted to hear..and So HE could get some action.....
What do you think of this?

[mini696]

Possibly. He obviously wasnt too convincing that he likes you.

Mick

[clynn]

Wow. You sure were interrogating him.

[Sorrowfullgodes]

So pretty much hes using me for action....
We had tht talk today...Cause yesterday I was thinking about breakin' up with him cause he like did call me for two weeks

[Junket]

Way to ask questions nobody could easily give a persuasive answer to.

What the **** you want him to do?

Jump out of a plane with a sign that says I love you?

And how long you been goin out with him?

He's an idiot to say he loves you if you're still callin' him your "new" boyfriend.

[Sorrowfullgodes]

Almost a month.....We were really onto eachother at first..Like we'd make out every day...we never had sex thoe...but I think thats what he wants...

[Junket]

You think that's what he wants...

Guys always want it, the conditions they're under differ from guy to guy, but in the end guys want sex.

Why do guys sweet talk girls?

To **** 'em.

Why do guys get married to girls?

To **** 'em.

It all comes down to sex.

Love leads to sex.

Now you said you asked him if he loved you.

My question is, do you love him?

[Sorrowfullgodes]

Yes, I love him dearly. Thats why I wanted to know if he loved me.
I think the first week we were dating he wanted to make love right away.. I mean he'd do all these things to try and make me horny, once my parents were out and he tryed to make me really horny hoping i'd put out there and then, I got really horny, almost put out...But...I didn't...........

[mini696]

Sometimes its fun to make women horny... I love to arouse my GF, without having sex at the end. Its especially fun to do it when we are in a situation where we couldnt have sex even if we wanted to (her daughters in the house, or whatever the reason).

Women dont understand that men love to show their love for their GF's, and people like Frasbee only ruin it for the good men.

Mick

[Only-virgins]

You guys said alot.

[Junket]

Women dont understand that men love to show their love for their GF's, and people like Frasbee only ruin it for the good men.

Have you ever had, and/or do you intend on having sex with your girlfriend Mini?

EDIT: As I clearly stated, the conditions as to when and why a guys wants to have sex differ. But yes, it always come down to sex.

Don't turn me into some kind of bad guy, I'm only tellin' it as it is.

[Sorrowfullgodes]

I Don't want to have sex intill i'm married because I'm scared I may get pregnant. Unless I'm married to him...I'm not gonna have sex with him. He can sweet talk and get me horny all he wants. I just hope he doesn't want me for my body..once he asked me to be a stripper for him.

[Junket]

Then do this.

Don't ask him any more silly questions like "do you love me".

Just straight up tell him that while you do like him you don't want to have sex until marriage.

If he's the committed type, and he really does like you, it shouldn't be an issue.

[bluesummer]

I don't get it....you've been together for 'almost a month', and you're already grilling him about marriage and your relationship and whether or not he 'still' loves you? That sounds like a discussion you should be having like, a year from now.

My guess is that his answers to these questions are, YES, just shutting you up to get you to sleep with him. Sorry. Wanting to get with you this first WEEK is not 'making love', it's simply 'getting laid'. And for god sake, stop busting the poor guy's balls. Otherwise, next month, you won't have a bf to post about on here.

[shh!]

You sound awfully young to be thinking about having sex, and bluesummer is correct - you are trying to make this relationship more intense than it ought to be at only one month. Calm down, and don't have sex with him. It is too soon for him to love you or for you to love him, and if you have to ASK if he loves you, he probably doesn't. One can usually tell by a man's behavior whether or not her loves a woman before he ever says it.