Reconcile?

[4everpatience]

I wanted to hear female views about 12yr relationship, 1 year seperated, and a posibility of reconciling. No kids, not married but live together for 7 yrs.
Reason for breakup is infidelity/trust from the woman and for the man verbal abuse and neglect.
The man seperated from the woman. woman still wants him back.

thank you in advance and with all do respect, only feedbacks that only make sense and can explain their reasoning.

[chinagirl]

Infidelity and verbal abuse... Good reason to REMAIN separated. No need for expianation. Those two words speak for themselves.

[4everpatience]

Infidelity and verbal abuse... Good reason to REMAIN separated. No need for expianation. Those two words speak for themselves.

Hi Chinagirl- I totally undertstand what you are feeling. Although the man cheated on the woman. And the woman verbally abused the man. They have learned to forgive each other. Although forgiveness is mutual...memories still hurt.

[chinagirl]

If you can get past the hurt and the trust issues, then by all means, try to work it out... But I would not consider full reconciliation. Maybe go on a trial period ( don't live together) to see if you pass the test of time.