What are our chances of getting back together?

[blissfinder]

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[basilandthyme]

Hon, if the two of you are arguing frequently over stupid stuff after only 4 months, then the relationship is clearly not meant to be. Learn to listen to the signals and walk away when those red flags start flying.

[chinagirl]

Question
1. No
2. Yes
3. Yes

The fact that you are arguing a lot about nothing shows that you are both immature and incompatible.

[bekho]

Arguing doesn't necessarily mean you're immature or incompatible.

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[chinagirl]

Arguing doesn't necessarily mean you're immature or incompatible.

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If it happens a lot YES... If it's arguing about nothing, YES. Mature people do not argue about nothing. Mature individuals know the ART of communicating well with their partners therefore, avoid arguing.

Compatible partners find LESS reason to argue.

[bekho]

I disagree completely. Everybody is different. Its about finding someone who can accept you and you them. Arguing couples, bickering couples. Quiet couples. Arguments and disagreements should be expected as part of human relationships. I don't think arguments are a bad thing. If anything. Having arguments is healthier. The more the better. I think what you are talking about are arguments about the same topics with no resolution. I agree that if there are impasses about particular things then its hard to make things work. If you want a blind indiscriminate love, date a Labrador.

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[michelle23]

Arguing constantly is not healthy. Who the heck wants a relationship full of drama, stress and BS.. constant bickering and hurting each other.

If anyone thinks thats normal or healthy then they need help. Positive communication is about conflict resolution.. if you can communicate effectively then there is no need for it to blow up into a row.. healthy couples treat each other with respect and talk about issues calmly and then resolve them

[chinagirl]

I disagree completely. Everybody is different. Its about finding someone who can accept you and you them. Arguing couples, bickering couples. Quiet couples. Arguments and disagreements should be expected as part of human relationships. I don't think arguments are a bad thing. If anything. Having arguments is healthier. The more the better. I think what you are talking about are arguments about the same topics with no resolution. I agree that if there are impasses about particular things then its hard to make things work. If you want a blind indiscriminate love, date a Labrador.

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If arguing is the core of your relationship and that makes you happy and sleep well at night, then by all means... GO for it!
But I do believe that majority of individuals would like to avoid an argumentative partner.

[bekho]

What a typical china girl ;P

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[chinagirl]

What a typical china girl ;P

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FYI... I'm not even Chinese ;-)

[bekho]

Ooh La La !

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