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    Guys, what type of man he is? URGENT...

    I know this man. He is my friend but I just cannot understand him.
    He is 29 years old. Reasonably good looking.
    He was an engineer before and has completed his engineering. But now he acts in theatres and shows as an actor.
    He is from a very small village and comes from a poor family. Though now he earns by himself.

    He is a very different kind of person. He has worked in so many shows with so many beautiful females- co actresses working as his on-screen wife/girlfriend but he never got involved with them romantically. He focusses on his career a lot.

    He just does not get affected or budged by beautiful women. He is extremely professional and though he is friendly with his male co stars, he keeps less contact with the females. He does appreciate beautiful women though. Like he follows a porn star turned actress in Indian film industry on Instagram.

    He is more intellectual. Likes to read books, concentrate on his work and improving himself and likes to read and stay updated with the news. He even reads spiritual books.
    He is also of reserved and serious nature. even on sets, sometimes I have seen him all by himself, immersed in his own world and reasonably quiet.
    Sometimes he likes to have fun. But he seldom looks truly happy or free. has a few friends but says he likes to stay indoors, at home and sometimes meets his friends.

    He has no mother. His mother died many years ago. He has a father and an older sister who is married and has a child.

    I am sure he is not the type to fall for a girl solely on her looks or personality. He is nice towards women. He treats them well and is friendly towards them but not really moved by their flirting or looks.
    A reporter from Indonesia was repeatedly hitting on him and flirting with him while interviewing him but all he was doing was smiling and answering her questions.
    She even kissed him twice on both of his cheeks. Later she said she loves him in a joking sort of way and he was blushing and smiling but did not do anything more than just talk and laugh.
    She kept placing her hands on his legs and initially he moved back against the wall but later when she did it again, he did not flinch guess he was already by the wall.

    He seems pretty shy and less experienced in terms of getting girls even though he has been surrounded by pretty co actresses.

    He cares a lot about his fans. He talks to them as if he is their friend and not an actor. I have seen girls showing each other screen-shots of their conversation with him and he sounds so humble and like a friend. Nothing flirty or raunchy. Just talks about his work or if there is something related to his fan-pages or his fans asking him questions.

    I have noticed he seems to have a dual personality. On one side he seems simple and humble but the other side, he is always wearing these stylish aviators. He even shows off a little bit of chest by unbuttoning his button down shirts. And he posts pictures of himself from his professional shoots or just normal pictures.

    How to attract such a person? What type of person is he?

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    I think the most prominent answer in your last thread was that he must be gay.

    Knowing what type of attributes he would find attractive in a woman still won't be the key to get noticed. If he doesn't show interest he never will.

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    I think you would have more luck hiring a chaos magician to cast a love spell for ya.

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    Oh FFS just ask him if he finds you attractive and would like to go for coffee. If yes, then see what happens. If no, then you can move on.

    Stop posting multiple threads. Its the anonymous inter webs. Noone here knows or cares who you are. We've read much freakier stories.
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    I'm not sure it's possible to attract a person who's showing no interest. Successful attraction seems to require initial interest from both parties. At least, it's something I've never had any success with back when I was single....nor has any guy had luck attracting me if I was initially unattracted.
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    Just ask him out
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    you seem to now alot about him so why ask strangers what type of man is he none of us know the dude. are you jealous or insecure about he beautiful women he works with you mentioned it a number of times. everyone has different sides that is what makes us interesting and not one dimensional i don't see that as an issue. to attract him you have to be face to face with him not in the sidelines lurking or online posting.
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    You need to stop with this fatal attraction crap. If he hasn't noticed you, he's not going to be interested in you. Tip: Guys are visual creatures, physical attraction is how you get noticed.

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    You're from the US and he's from "a small village?"

    Uh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smackie9 View Post
    I think the most prominent answer in your last thread was that he must be gay.

    Knowing what type of attributes he would find attractive in a woman still won't be the key to get noticed. If he doesn't show interest he never will.

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    I think you would have more luck hiring a chaos magician to cast a love spell for ya.
    Quote Originally Posted by smackie9 View Post
    You need to stop with this fatal attraction crap. If he hasn't noticed you, he's not going to be interested in you. Tip: Guys are visual creatures, physical attraction is how you get noticed.
    Quoted for truth.

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    I mean going off that, he's either gay, or a really really nice straight guy. Ask him to hang out!
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