Can I get her attracted?

[Falleninlove]

She is my best friend but not attracted to me. She doesn't like me. I am very small and skinny and all my female friends tell me I need to beef up.

I have a break of four months from her, I am planning to go to gym and do an extensive fitness program. If after four months, I am bigger and ripped, can I make her look at me in a different way than just a friend!

[smackie9]

It doesn't matter. Girls are more complex than you think and are not that easy to attract. If she says she's not interested she means it.

If you are going to "beef it up" do it for yourself and not for one girl. Another reason you fail at attracting girl is that you have female friends. Girls like a masculine guy that has male buddies, plays sports or do a lot of physical activities. I myself would never date a guy that has a bunch of female friends....I like a man's man.

[Falleninlove]

It doesn't matter. Girls are more complex than you think and are not that easy to attract. If she says she's not interested she means it.

If you are going to "beef it up" do it for yourself and not for one girl. Another reason you fail at attracting girl is that you have female friends. Girls like a masculine guy that has male buddies, plays sports or do a lot of physical activities. I myself would never date a guy that has a bunch of female friends....I like a man's man.

Damn, all my friends are female!

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She is so sweet to me but I guess she sees me as a cute boy needed to be taken care of, not a boy friend material!

Is there no way to win a girl's heart after loosing out in the first place?

[smackie9]

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She is so sweet to me but I guess she sees me as a cute boy needed to be taken care of, not a boy friend material!

Is there no way to win a girl's heart after loosing out in the first place?

Ya just like the rest of those girls you call friends.

No, a girl usually knows what she wants....bad boy, outlaw biker, jerk, edgy guy with attitude, etc.