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    What does this mean (short conversation between me and her)

    Well im guessing most of you know what snapchat is..send like 10 second pics to each other if you didn't know

    well i sent a snapchat to everyone including a girl i like, shes shown mixed interest in me and we have met a couple of times and its gone well.

    and this was the conversation after she received my snapchat

    She: You look different one Snapchat
    Me: What do you mean?
    She: You look different on sc
    Me: well whats different?
    She: dunno lol xxx
    Me: Well is that a good or bad thing?
    She: its not bad..
    Me: well whats that meant to mean then?
    She: dunno haha xxx
    Me: You saying i dont look as good in real life?
    She: No.. Did i say that.. No!
    Me: well whats different then?
    She: You look younger on sc xxx

    Im struggling trying to read what she actually meant in this.. because i know if anyone thought someone didnt look as good as they did in photos they would never mention to that person they look different on pics. At same time though she is generally a very nice person so i know if thats what she meant then obviously she would never admit to it.

    Im not really sure what to think was she just generally saying i look different or is there more to it than that?

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    You met her before sending the photo, right? And everything went well? Are you going to meet again?

    If the answer to those questions is "yes", then I don't see the problem... she was just commenting on your pic. It was a bit rude of her, but unless she's a shitty communicator (in which case you don't want her anyway) and actually meant that she isn't attracted to you after seeing your pic (which is frankly absurd, since you had met in person before), there's nothing more.

    Have you talked more after that conversation? How old are you guys anyway?
    Last edited by searock; 06-06-14 at 07:24 PM.

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    Look out FB, snapshot is the new Anti-Christ of social media. lol

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    yeah i met her twice last week, i assumed they went good on both sides if she text me both times pretty much straight away when she got home and we have been pretty much been texting constantly during that week, you know flirting and all that, not spoke much this week i decided to give her a bit of space while she has exams and she's meant to be coming round to see me again soon.. im 19 and she is 17

    yeah we were talking a bit after that conversation, i was a bit annoyed at something that happened abit earlier and she was saying she hopes im okay and all that..

    is that good or bad?

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    It seems just fine to me. Don't over analyze, she probably meant nothing by that comment. Just move on and enjoy your next date.

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