Hah! at KingZ, why don't you ask posters Valixy likes and trusts to get her to share her pic with those female poster's or male posters and they can describe her to you off the pic. Indi and Basil the same? Women would share privately with other women over men, I think.
I'll ask Basil to check out thread Via PM, you hit up Valixy and Indi?
Michelle was a good sport after getting her PM and not only posted but shared pics ( NEW pics of her.)