sex with alcohol vs sex without

[cleancoupe]

hello all, after a crazy 8 months of intense studying to pass the year and not having sex with a girl I finally got laid a couple nights ago. A group of us went to the club and came back to my house, I asked her to come in for a little bit and she did. At this point I was drunk and she didn't have one touch of alcohol. I have always believed that I suffer from PE because in my previous relationship I would let go within 20-30 seconds and would have to wait to get hard again and the second time around would be better. Anyway, back to that night we started having sex and I was on for like 15 minutes.. I even got tired! I was amazed at what my penis was doing since I was lasting so long.. It was one hell of a night.. So why is it that alcohol does this.. Makes you last so much longer??
I wish there was something I could do to last this long and be sober..

[searock]

In general, alcohol slows down your nervous system, which among other things controls arousals. So when you drink (general you), it will be more difficult for you to achieve and maintain an erection. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, alcohol can help to slow things down and make you last longer.

As for lasting longer without drinking alcohol, there are condoms and other products that can help (google search "long lasting condoms/lubricants"). Also, I'm not a guy so I can't really give valid advice in this regard, but apparently there are masturbation techniques which you can use to "train" your penis to last longer.

[Wakeup]

(maybe?) You didn't trust her so I suspect that it may have been for psychological reasons. How well do you know "her?" That and the alcohol.

[basilandthyme]

Yep, the alcohol definitely impairs sexual response: Takes the edge off so that it takes longer to climax. It's not uncommon for a drunk guy to lose his erection altogether.

And I will add that a guy who's had too much to drink will often suffer in the 'technique' department.

[michelle23]

My bf cant cum when hes drunk. Eventually he just falls asleep. Sex is really bad when your drunk, no skill/technique, sloppy, boring and irritating.. luckily my bf only gets drunk like twice a year and its usually me who wants drunken sex even though I know it will be bad. We both go to sleep unsatisfied and wake up really horny lol

[cleancoupe]

(maybe?) You didn't trust her so I suspect that it may have been for psychological reasons. How well do you know "her?" That and the alcohol.

I don't know her very well. This is the third time I see her.

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As for lasting longer without drinking alcohol, there are condoms and other products that can help (google search "long lasting condoms/lubricants"). Also, I'm not a guy so I can't really give valid advice in this regard, but apparently there are masturbation techniques which you can use to "train" your penis to last longer.

Just did the search and Found the durex performance condoms. Been reading reviews and a lot of guys are saying it really works! Will give these a try when I get laid again and hopefully without any alcohol in my system

[Exeter19]

because your weren't thinking about it so much, the alcohol relaxed you and made you just want to f.uck her, you were in the moment, not in your head.

[basilandthyme]

My bf cant cum when hes drunk. Eventually he just falls asleep. Sex is really bad when your drunk, no skill/technique, sloppy, boring and irritating.. luckily my bf only gets drunk like twice a year and its usually me who wants drunken sex even though I know it will be bad. We both go to sleep unsatisfied and wake up really horny lol

^^ this.....

[Belleann]

You guys are making me lmao right now. 15 minutes, REALLY!?!?, :/

[Darrow]

Ever hear of Whiskey Dick? Essentially what everyone just said!