Had a very strong 6 month relationship, our love was very intense. I would ask her if she was okay with the distance(only an hour bus ride) and the last time i asked she said she was okay with it, a week after she ended it saying she felt disconnected. I was upset and said fine and that if she doesnt need me id leave her alone. Then about 10 days after i saw a picture of her kissing a guy on the cheek. Is this a rebound? I texted her sounding somewhat desperate but not begging, i said i couldnt stand to have her with some douche which she is with right now but i didnt tell her i knew she was with him. Told her i was done holding onto her and that i cant keep talking to her. Two days after i messaged her saying "Ive realized that this breakup was a great idea, i really think that we needed this extra space. Thank you." NC for 4 days, thinking in a month or two ill send her a hand written letter ive been working on, any thoughts?