Not really sure what to think/do

[Cancer]

Yeah, slowly but surely it seems that way, doesn't it. If I postpone the trip though, and I already have my ticket, I will never know what's really going on. And I need to know, just for myself. I would be surprised if I was totally worng about him. I don't think I am. I just think that he mixed up the truth with some "half-truth" to not lose me entirely...as another user said, there would have been game changers for me and apparently he wanted to avoid that. Now, that he pushes me aside for a week, I don't know exactly what his deal is. I am upset!

Dear, I have heard someone said: 'To define if it's white lie or not, the point is who get benifit from the lie.'

It's lucky that you can accept the truth that he has kids, what if you can not accept that? then you would have left with anger and upset...

Anyway, I think he's not an honest person.

Take care

[Lexeen80]

Hello,
You are probably right. Maybe I accepted too much already. And if someone gets hurt, its not a "white" lie. Thank you for your reply, its just sad....