I did it! And it was HORRIBLE!!

[*Bright_Eyes*]

Ok so I finally finished with me bf! It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do and he took it really badly but at least I am not lying to him anymore. I phoned him and told him. He has since text me asking why loads but I've just said that I don't want to be with him anymore and I can't help the way I feel!
Never want to be in that situation again though. I don't like hurting people. XxX

[Late_vamp]

well get used to it . cuz unless your gonna compromise and are ready to get married then...its not gonna be the 1st time your gonna feel like that.

[gHEXjt]

You must really not have cared much about this guy to do it to him over the phone. The least you can do is give him some of the reasons as to why you did this. Then maybe he'll be able to improve things you didn't like for his future relationships.

[Late_vamp]

gHEXjt is right , not telling the guy what his mistakes were .he just never learned his lesson so he'll just go back and do the same thing again . Unless he figures it out by himself ...

[Ellynn]

He does deserve an explanation. Tell him what you told us.

Yes it sucks being the one to end things....but in the long run your doing the right thing.

[MajorGlory]

Hey c'mon it sucks much more being in the other situation, take it this way.
But give the guy some explanation.. not loving him anymore is actually one. Though this has nothing to do with learning the guy will accept it sooner than having himself shattering his brain over 1000 different possible reasons. Once you did refuse kindly to have him nag you cos it wouldnt help any of you two.
greetings