Guys if you wanted to end your relationship would you act like this?

[conflicted1989]

I've been in a 7 year relationship and we don't even live together. He makes no effort to do anything with me. Us hanging out consists of me sitting on his parents couch watching tv while he's on the internet. Our anniversary was not to long ago and he did nothing but complain and say things like who cares about our anniversary. When he got done eating his meal he kept trying to rush me saying I eat to slow and hurry up stupid bitch.Then he kept critizing me for eating more than him even though I just got off work and hadn't eaten all day. I'm 5ft 100lbs I'm not fat. When he doesn't get his way he will destroy my things and tell me he's going to beat the fk out of me. He's left huge dents in my car, the radio doesn't turn off anymore because he threw soda on me one day and it got in the radio. He got mad and twisted my finger all to he'll and two months later it still really hurts. He stabbed me with my keys and left a scar down my leg from it. He also threw my keys at my head and left a big lump before. Also he tells me that only he is allowed to masturbate if I do it I'm a who're. I've found backpage escort stuff all over his phone in the past. He was on some forum with the question which escorts are clean. He said he was just looking at the girls. But his web history showed him only looking at 12 plus pages of the question. I've found plenty of fish and casual encounters on his favorite list. I've tried to break up with him and he just shows up at my house acting like nothing happened. He's always saying he's smarter and better than me. And says all I care about is my dog that I recently adopted. He constantly calls me stupid and whore. He never wants to go out and do anything with me and if I try to hang out with a friend I'm a slut but if he wants to hang out with someone it's okay. He never hangs out with anyone though. He tells me I have psychological issues when I say he's a psycho asshole. My question is...should I just end this relationship? I love him but I feel like he doesn't care about me and no matter how many times I bring issues up he makes no effort to fix them. We were supposed to go somewhere today and he didn't feel like it so I went and walked my dog and now he's pissy at me and is ignoring me. Wtf am I supposed to do stay in my house all day and be miserable? He doesn't even like me working. I'm so sick of him and I can't deal with this anymore. Would you treat a girl you were with for 7 years like this?

[Archie]

I wouldn't.. But jeez, where did you find this guy, this sounds abosutely mortifying. If I were you I'd just pick up an ugly stick and beat the living crap out of him for treating you this way.

Now from a psychological standpoint, it's easyer for us guys to break up if we hurt the person we are together with, so that she hates us. But even then, We do stupid stuff and make women doubt their choice of being with us, this is going overboard. You should leave him as soon as possible.

[Wakeup]

This is a troll post, right? There is no way anyone who didn't need to be hospitalized in a psychiatric facility would need to ask the question: "Should I break up with him" when they've endured what your post says you've endured.

Get a restraining order to keep him away from you and get that help you need in that psych hospital so that you learn to love yourself enough to know that you don't need to ask strangers on a message board if you should break up with someone that abuses you... that is if you're not a troll.

You DO have issues that you NEED to address. It will take you calling an abused woman's hotline to begin with to get you the other help you're going to need.

[woody]

Dear Conflicted,

WHY ARE YOU CONFLICTED????? 7 minutes would be enough time to make the right choice here. Why so low on yourself that your willing to tolerate such abuse (and it is abuse, make no mistake about that) I don't know what a troll is and I'll assume to give the benefit of any doubt and believe this is an actual real life problem for you and i'll offer genuine heartfelt advice, so here it goes. Are you ready?

GET OUT OF THIS A.S.A.P I must assume that your self esteem is at an all time low. No one with an ounce of self respect would stay in such a toxic and abusive relationship (if one can even call it a relationship). Your his door mat I'm sorry to say, his punching bag. Any person that treats their significant other this way is a piece of crap who ought be discarded. Time and time again, you allow him to treat you this way. Why??? Huh? WHY????

You should pack up your things ( i know you don't live with him) but he knows where you live. You need to fight for your life here. Pack your things after you've found another place preferably in another town or City and leave. Leave without a trace. Don't tell him or any similar friends where your going and make a choice. Stay and become another sad statistic OR,,,,, LEAVE and offer yourself hope for a better life without this asshole in it. Why the F___ would you put up with this... Do you not think your worth having a good man in your life? Well, you are worth it so smarten up young lady; go grab some self respect, allot more self respect, self love and do the right thing... 7 years? WTF. Honestly, if you were my daughter or my sister I'd get you the help you obviously need; i'd pack your things for you, find you a safe home and get you out of there.

Now is the time you must be your own protector. Get some information on safe houses. They can help you. You don't need money, you just need strength to fight for your life. Smarten up and grab some more self love lady. You've already wasted waaay too much time with this prick.

Ditch the prick, fight for your life and I don't mean with fists, I mean with action. Do it...and do it now. Don't tell him about it or you'll risk physical lash backs. Do it stealth mode and just disappear from this losers life and thank your lucky stars you didn't have a child with him...
You can and you must
So, start right now. NOW. please.

[fearoflove]

OP is probably so used to this relationship that she finds it hard to leave despite the abuse she experiences on a daily basis. Get out of this relationship now and move out.

[somehelp4me]

"I feel like he doesn't care about me" No shit! he doesn't and probably doesn't love you either.
He treats you that way because you let him and are still there taking it, just leave, no way you can't find better than this dude. Hah!

[dontaskme]

How the fukc did you last this long with the asshole? Ah, I know... You are crazy yourself woman! See a psychiatrist Stat!