Now, about 10 months ago I was on my boyfriends computer just to go on facebook and non sense. I went to click the back button and it popped up most recently viewed and "I seen metro Detroit escorts" (we by the way live in metro Detroit) and it bothered me like why would you look at those ads. IT bothered me for a good month until I broke down and looked at his phone while he was asleep and found out he had called one.. I confronted him eventually and he denies seeing them says he just texts them to mess with them and not show up because they get mad blah blah blah. Says he would stop. Awhle later I found a picture of a girls breasts in his phone. He admits it was from a escort but he didn't realize he kept it but it was saved. He said he only got it because they say they wont send pictures but he got her to send one. Says he would stop.
Still I continually found him calling them. And eventually found he was looking up directions to a hotel and random areas. Which clearly were for escorts.
Now if he were just "messing with them" why would he keep doing it and go as far as getting directions. I think he was too tempted. He said he was thinking about it but didn't go. But how am I supposed to know what had actually happened. He has lied so many times right to my face. And not to mention the hotel was quite close to his house...The last time he has done anything it has been months but its to the point where I still think about it a lot. I bring it up and used it against him. I check his phone and computer...essentially have became someone I never wanted to be in a relationship. I don't think he would actually go to one but then again I never thought he would do this in the first place. I now view him differently than before. I just don't know what to think...we have been together for a year and a half and the last year has pretty much been me dealing with this crap and being unhappy on and off. He really has been different lately but its me I am worried about. I cannot let it go because well I got hurt a lot, lost trust and quite frankly I cannot let it go. I feel disgusted and well I feel like he see's women as sex objects.
Theres also been a couple other things I found out he was making fake dating websites and talking to women...over and over. After he said he would stop he kept doing it. I have also found out he has been on dirty camera chat websites. And when we were in public I found him looking at women a lot.
I just feel like he has a weird obsession with women