Are all men just sexually driven in life

[kkrls]

My experience from men through life has not been the best I guess.
My first boyfriend ever was way older than me, manipulative and was still with his babies mother while dating me, yet telling me he wasn't. He took my virginity..
Another was a druggie who used me for sex. Would only hang out with me for an hour at a time and want sexual favors, but didn't tell anyone we were dating.
Don't forget about the crazy boyfriend who tried to rape me, luckily I was stronger than him so he didn't succeed
And my last ex who I found out was calling escorts, which I don't think he actually seen but who knows he was forsure thinking about it.
Not to mention when I was 17 I stayed the night at my best friends house and her boyfriend stayed over too, I woke up in the middle of the night to him touching me in my sleep...
For what I have experienced, all men care about is sex and using girls and even if they really do care they just have this drive in the back of their mind that they cannot help..
Have I just had the worst of luck with guys or is this just the sad truth?
Because im starting to feel like I don't want ANY guy...
Its just like even if they do love you with everything they do care,
their dick controls everything
Shit just be honest with me

[Archie]

Sucks to be you then.

[michelle23]

I think you lack insight. You chose to go for these types. Dating much older men, druggies, players, bad boys.. your obviously attracted to them for some reason. Maybe you believe that you can change them. Or maybe you ignore red flags early on. Maybe you trust too easily and rush in too quick without thinking things true first. You need to take some accountability coz if this keeps happening, and there is a pattern then i am sorry but you are also the problem. What about when you realize you cannot trust him? Do you immediately dump him or do you keep giving him chances??

My experience with men has been the opposite to yours. I know plenty of good ones, have been on dates with lots of genuine, honest people, my second bf worshiped the ground i walked on and i could trust him with my life. My current bf is the same and we are together 6years. Ive only had one bad experience at 17 where i was cheated on and i dumped him straight away. Ive dated 2bad ones briefly but again dumped them both as soon as i realized they could not be trusted and neither of them got past a kiss with me..

Not all men are bad. You just have bad taste

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And ill also add if they are cheating, lying, hurting you etc-they do not care, they don't love you or respect you. Its disturbing you believe someone can treat you so bad and still care

[pcmaster]

Some guy said(Elliot Hulse if you know him on youtube) that everything we do on this world is sexually driven. Sexual energy drives human race or so. Anyway Chris Rock said(comedian on yourtube) That if men could **** women in cardboard box then we wouldnt buying houses and cars.

BTW lol at guy who tried to rape you its fun that you where stronger than him.

To be honest I would date girl even without sex. Because Im on meds that lowers my sex drive and I dont feel need for it.

[michelle23]

Just because some dude on youtube said something, doesn't make it true.

I think we are all sexually driven because sex is natural and all animals aim to reproduce. Without a sex drive, we would go extinct. However, that doesn't mean that there are not people who are also emotionally driven. You can be both and plenty of men and women are both.

[lovebroken]

I think you haven't chosen wisely or don't have much to chose from in men where you live, not all men want sex some men actually wait until marriage for sex. Hope you find a better class of man to show you what a good man can be.