I dated this guy for almost 5months, the connction with him was so great, he treat me with so much respect, he almost has everything a women can ask for. smart, Sweet, thoughtful guy who put so much effort, I know we were so into each other back thn so i fall hard for him. I thought ours would go further, even think he might be the one. But we came to this point when i askd him where do i really stand, he told me he wasnt ready. Not ready for commitment. It hurts so bad. I couldnt settle for less, n he said he doesnt want to hurt me too so we both decided to stop but agree to be frnds.
Its been almost a year now when we stop.and we still see each other from time to time (as a friend no any romantic involve here). But i get to see him more often this past 2months. I admit i still have feelings for him, n its going stronger again, i couldnt help myself but to feel happy when he is around, n make me feel warm when he hugs me. He always give me this look, as if im the only girl in the world. He smiles the whole time when he is with me, he still treats me/ we do things as if we were still dating, When i ask him if he seeing someone else he said no. The only problem is he didnt say anything or try to open up, So i dont really know whats going on between me and him. To be honest im afraid to ask, i might be push him away.
I dont really know what to do. Should i just wait and see? Let things happns freely? Im afraid if i ask him i might push him away. I dont wanna pressure him either. But i do want him back. Pls give me some advise. Would appreciate advise from guy too. Thank you!