When you no longer feel in love..

[kelly1685]

I have no idea if I am in love with my husband anymore. We have been married for 5 years and have had our ups and downs. Some days are better than others but I find my self often questioning if I love him because I don't feel how I used to about him. Its more like we are friends. I am debating getting a divorce...but I also don't know if that is the right decision. I know marriage is tough but figuring out the right thing to do it hard...

[tayhei]

If you're questioning if you love your husband or not...you should not be married to each other. Marriage should happen when you have no doubts about loving your spouse. However, a lot of people don't do this and often rush into marriage because of one reason or another, like being lonely for the rest of their life. If you don't have kids, I would definitely get a divorce. It makes things easier. Find someone you can truly love.

[anya_may21]

Take a time out separation and see what life is like not being together and if you feel happier that way, then go forward with the divorce if you miss him, each other try to work on rekindling your love.