Feeling pretty desperate atm so any feedback would be much appreciated. I have recently just been dumped. When we first started seeing eachother we discussed how important it is to not intentionally hurt others and to always be honest and open. However it's now come to light that I was probably being used as a rebound and the pain is absolutely excruciating. I found out the day they dumped me that they were asking for their ex back. I got in touch asking for an explanation, they said I love you but can't be in a relationship, promised they didn't want the ex back and that they finished with me as I made them feel like an option and not a priority. Which I know isn't true as the ex told me different, I stupidly messaged them on facebook. Why not just be honest? Would feel so much better if they just told the truth or even a sorry would suffice but I'm just ignored and cut off with nothing. If I had experience and knew the warning signs of someone in a rebound relationship I would never have bothered with them! Just feel so dirty and used, why won't they admit what their intentions were and apologise for causing such grief? Thanks for any advice.