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    just buddies

    Would you stay in a relationship that was fun but you knew it was never going anywhere beyond that?

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    How do you know it's never going anywhere? None of us know what will happen tomorrow.

    I was in a similair situation, thought we were too much of buddies to be anything more.. but oh we went there, and oh we were much much more.

    Besides, more info would probably help us. Unlike you, we can't predict the future.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chelsee
    Would you stay in a relationship that was fun but you knew it was never going anywhere beyond that?
    You bet your ass i would...Dont take life so seriously, you'll never get out alive..lol...that's what my ex said to me...Honestly, just have fun and don't worry about anything...When you complain and just want everything setup your way, things will only get worse. Chillax'!
    -to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings

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    Yeah I would, I'm not really looking for a wife, kids, or a white picket fence.
    As long as your having fun. I've always pitied these people who constantly feel unfulfilled unless there in a relationship thats going "somewhere". Have fun and be in the moment.

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    chelsee---"Would you stay in a relationship that was fun but you knew it was never going anywhere beyond that?"

    What comes after fun? Sheer boredom in some instances.

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    lol, i get what you guys are saying.

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    You mean a friendship? The more friends the better. Doesn't matter what sex they are.

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    Well if it seriously was going NOWHERE at all.....and the person and I were better off with just being friends....thats what it would be.

    But the future is uncertain. If I'm really happy and content with how everything is and the guy doesn't bug me or make me annoyed or piss me off on a daily basis and I could see some type of commitment in the long run....then I would stick it out.
    Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....


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    If that's what you want then yeah, I'm sure the guy won't mind.
    If it's not, then hey, anything could happen, because the ticket to the future is always blank.

    "Only the Dead have seen the end of War."
    - Plato

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ekips
    If it's not, then hey, anything could happen, because the ticket to the future is always blank.
    ha, nice - I like that little saying.

    (:

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    Quote Originally Posted by chelsee
    Would you stay in a relationship that was fun but you knew it was never going anywhere beyond that?
    you mean like friends with benefits? or somebody who just doesn't want to get married?

    the question is too vague.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra
    you mean like friends with benefits? or somebody who just doesn't want to get married?

    the question is too vague.
    YES, I was kinda thinking the same thing.....PLEASE clarify!!!

    Then I will give you a more detailed answer....
    Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....


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