posted this up before but need help quick

[ginger one]

So there's this girl that I have liked for 6-7 month's and she is now apart of a group of friend I used to be in but I left because my ex was in the group and well she's a Hart less bitch any way the rest of the group Dosent like her, sorry getting off topic any way their group is made of two couples and they invited me over for a new years party and then stay over so this girl I like was going and we were the only two single people there and when the ball dropped and the two couples started makeing out and then I looked at this incredible attractive girl who had her legs over me and has holding me and then I leaned and in and she leaned in and we starting makeing out but I wasn't like you see people do it because they have to because Its new years but because she and I wanted to then the two couples started looking and smiling at us any way we all went to bed and she came down and said good night to me and we kised. Later on her friend comes down (my mates gf) and says to me you should talk to her cuss she just freaked out saying that she can't deal with any thing atm and that she dosent want to put me through any thing like what happens to me and my ex. So the next morning I talk to her say that if she dosent want to have a Relationship than that's completely ok and she was like yeah ok but then later on her friend said that she does like me, so do I tell her that I have liked her for a lot of time and it wasn't just a one night thing and that the kiss ment a lot more than christening the new year please help and our prom is coming up as well and I know there's like 3 other guy that are guna ask her so what do I do 6ft 4,ginger,geeky and nerdy size 13 not sporty at all

[JChristie]

you need to remember that geeks and nerds are the new cool. maybe watch some old humphrey bogart or gene kelly movies to see how real men used to treat a woman. stay grounded in who you are, what your dreams and goals are. you are a real wonderful person and as long as we can stand firm in this belief and feeling, our paths will be smoother, and others will find us more charming.

also, if you could come up with something very special and fun to do on Prom night, when you ask her, this fun thing may turn the tides in your favor.

best wishes. and don't forget, there are lots of friends to meet before we find our true love.

[smackie9]

Oh good lord just ask her out. If she declines, you simply ask someone else. Prom dates are just dates, not life time mates so don't put so much into it. It shouldn't matter who goes as your date, you just hang out dance and have fun.