Am i crazy ????

[RSK]

Listen to this guy, it takes one to know one. If he says you're nuts, you are.

smart ass comment of the day award goes to: TAVS

[paulpearl]

it is not your fault, when i first see the begining of your story(the man first came out) i thought that he may has some problems. he may have some reasons. so he needs, in my opinion ,it would be better if you consider him as a best friend.

[Isamu]

I can relate to this story. I told this story earlier but I shorten it to avoid boring most of you guys. When I entered first year Engineering in University, it was so hard that I hardly have time for anything else. My girlfriend became one of those thing that I was neglecting and she did eventually leave me for another guy. The thing is, I know this other guy, and even though I think I am better then her new bf in almost every possible way, he can offer her what I can't-time, companionship, and emotional support.

I can't blame, her because I can see myself doing the same thing in her shoe. I just wish she would tell me that she was lonely and she need my present. I mean I would sacrafice some things for her, I just never got the chance.

So my advice to u, if u r lonely, ask you good bf if he would be willing to spend more time with u, don't assume that he won't.

[Mish]

ok...let's put it THIS way...

<<good,hard working guy,loves me to death...not always available,no fun>> (P.s.Determined)

vs

<<broke son of gun,probably pathological liar,maybe a drug addict with the crazy baby mama drama...>> (P.S. No proof whatsoever.)

Ah,screw everything,im going to sleep now. LOL

Thanks for every reply anyways.

I think you should go single for awhile. You are clearly not ready for a relationship at this moment in time. Set both men free to their own devices. For both your and their sakes.