Yes, it's extraordinarily hard watching someone we love making decisions which are going to eventuate in a really bad outcome for them. Just ask any parent.
Thing is though, there are very few of us who don't make a few really bad decisions during our lives - and the end result of these decisions is that they add to us. We learn and grow and discover our resilience
We can't spend our time worrying about the choices another person is making. We need to let go and let them live and learn. Yes, she'll probably get burned, but this is all part of life and learning. If you were able to remove her from this situation, you would be taking a very important learning experience away from her.
In the meantime, if it becomes just too much for you to bear, walk away. I'm being serious.
Last edited by basilandthyme; 21-05-15 at 10:27 PM.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.