Hi
I've been in my current job about 18 months now and my feelings for a male colleague have even growing for the past 8 to 10 months or so.
While he's a friendly, funny guy, he keeps his home life kind of private and is quite a shy guy on the relationship front. Some of my colleagues know I like him and have known him longer than me and said in the 7 years they've known him they've never known him to have a girlfriend. None if us think he's a one night stand kind of guy either.
He's in his mid 20s, as am I.
We all chat in work and there's always lots of banter. Occasionally I've caught him looking at me and
vice versa and we've quickly looked away.
We've had lots of chatty banter for ages via text. He has recently started to put 'x' at the end of texts sometimes.
A few months ago when his parents we're on holiday, he phoned me slightly drunk and we chatted. He said to come over for a drink. It was 11pm and I was already in bed for work the following morning. He said he'd take me in work on the morning. I declined his offer. He said a few days later he didn't realise how late it was. So nothing came of that.
He has called a few times since and we've spoken about our dogs and work and stuff.
A few weeks ago he called me, slightly drunk again and we chatted. He also text and put two 'xx' at the end of texts that night. He asked me was I up for a dog walk the following day. I said yes and we met up for a walk. He knows I like his dog and if felt more friend zone than anything else though.
He doesn't call or text anyone else as much as me as far as I know.
I just can't work him out at all.
Thoughts and advice please?