ok….my partner had an affair a year ago…………continued to keep in touch……..he tells me now it is over….but I can't be sure. Trust is an issue with us. I feel he tells me only what he wants me to know. She used to live about 1600 miles away……..fine with me….but now she is about 2 hours away. I really have an urge to go meet her. I just think we should talk. I know my partner would be dead set against this….but he is talking marriage to me and I have to be sure. I can not marry a man who is cheating on me……….

What do you think? Should I meet her?