This might be a silly question, but how long does it take to get over someone, or in my case, two people? I was involved with a guy called Phil for about six months and it was a messy ending. Then his brother and I rushed into something but we know it will never work out because we have nothing in common except for huge sparks of attraction. I have been split up with Phil for a year, and his brother 8 months. I don't want to be with these guys but I still find myself thinking of them lots. It doesn't help that I keep bumping into them and the sparks are still there for us all! I just find it irritating to keep thinking of them. I have been on dates since and started to like another guy, but that didn't really go anywhere, but I just don't want to think about them at all, but at the same time I enjoy thinking of them.
How long will it take for me to not think of them at all?
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16-09-05, 02:01 AM #1
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How Do I Get Over Them?
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16-09-05, 02:09 AM #2
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You dated some guy and then you dated his BROTHER?
Somebody call the Jerry Springer show 
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16-09-05, 02:38 AM #3
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You should have gotten over them completely by now. You have problems. Find yourself a new guy.
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16-09-05, 02:51 AM #4
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As long as it takes you to find a set of male triplets.
Originally Posted by Karibo
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16-09-05, 02:53 AM #5
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Oh Geez.....TAVS and Jeblina are the only two responding to this thread....
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16-09-05, 02:56 AM #6
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What's wrong with that? I think we're both moving along quite well.
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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He-he; you're on suicide watch and Jeblina....well haven't heard much from her lately..
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16-09-05, 03:38 AM #8
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Well first off....seeing them all of the time cannot be easy. Try to avoid them as much as possible. Also....take up some new hobbies....find things to do to fill your time. Go out with friends of yours that are girls....who just want to have a good time.... Eventually another guy will come along..... But you have to give other people a chance....
Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....
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Suicide watch? Outch! Actually I'm doing quite well. I just had lunch with the Ex, and I'm doing just fine. Originally Posted by Lloyd95
From what I can tell, Jeblina is standing strong as well.
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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16-09-05, 04:31 AM #10
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Ok; so I can put this picture of you away? Originally Posted by TAVS
Suicide watch? Outch! Actually I'm doing quite well. I just had lunch with the Ex, and I'm doing just fine. From what I can tell, Jeblina is standing strong as well.
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16-09-05, 04:36 AM #11
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LoL! Can use that as me now, Glenn.
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Just because I don't have much to say, doesn't mean that I'm doing poorly....some days I just don't have as much to contribute... Originally Posted by Lloyd95
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16-09-05, 08:53 AM #13
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"but I just don't want to think about them at all, but at the same time I enjoy thinking of them. How long will it take for me to not think of them at all?" by Karibo
I like to eat candies, but i don't want to eat them, how long will it take me to stop eating them at all?Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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Lol yea I would think you should be over them by now, find some other guy who tickles your fancy and go for him like a bullet, that ought to snuff those thoughts of attraction right out! Originally Posted by Jeblina
You dated some guy and then you dated his BROTHER? Somebody call the Jerry Springer show 
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I wouldnt go that far. Originally Posted by Lloyd95
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
