+ Follow This Topic
Results 1 to 4 of 4

Thread: I'm in love with a girl one year older then me,but the problem is I got no life?

  1. #1
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    2

    I'm in love with a girl one year older then me,but the problem is I got no life?

    What's up guys,recently I've fell in love in a girl that is just perfect,she is the most beautiful thing that I could ever wish of !
    It all started when I was in school and some of my school mates started talking about some fighting classes (judo) that he is going on,and he started talking about a girl saying that she is really good at it,and she is very beautiful.I didn't think she was beautiful because of the fact she is training such a thing But I just said ''Meh,what's her facebook'' ? And when I checked her oh man,the most perfect thing that I have ever seen,I just wish I am with her on a island alone with her.But the problem is not that she is one year older then me (I am like taller then her like a couple of cm's,and I don't look that young,she is 16 and I am 15),the real problem is that I'm not like socialised,she get's like over 300 likes on facebook,and I post like one or two photos a year.Well...I have no life.I was born in a very poor family,with very poor house conditions.But now it's fixed up but,I've got no friends,and now I'm going into a new school,here in my country when you reach like 15 years,you go in like high school,and graduate at 19-20.Then you can go to college or what ever.As I was saying,and my parents we're very ill with very hard medical conditions,and everything of those things fu*ked up my social life.But thank god they are cured for sure.I'm in love with a very beautiful perfect cute adorable and popular girl,and I'm just a regular guy with no life.
    And I came in with a conclusion that she maybe likes guys with good body,I mean not muscular but having good in-shape abs and good chest.
    And here's a picture of her,well she is just perfect for me.Here's a picture of her (It's not a virus,its prntscr,sorry for breaking a rule,I shouldn't be posting links unless I'm registered for 30 days,but here is it.... h t t p : / / prntscr . com / 803e45
    Sorry if my English isn't perfect

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Sydney
    Posts
    7,055
    My daughter is your age and boys being one year younger is not a deterrent to her.

    Now, about this girl you love: you go to great lengths discussing her beauty. But you say nothing about her personality. How much time have you spent talking with her? Is she thoughtful and caring towards you?

    Meanwhile, you're thinking that she prefers guys with a good body. From this angle, it sounds like you haven't yet realised that looks mean little when it comes to love. Yes, a pretty face can attract a person - but kindness and emotional connection is far more important.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Aug 2015
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    2
    Thing is I haven't even met her,strange isn't it

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Sydney
    Posts
    7,055
    Then it's not love. It's infatuation...a crush. Love takes longer to appear - it happens when we know a person well and we know that they work together with us like pieces of a jigsaw.

    Spend time making your life as you want it and the rest will come to you. If not this girl, then another girl. I promise.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

Similar Threads

  1. In love with 4 year older college
    By Andreass in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 04-01-15, 02:27 PM
  2. Replies: 1
    Last Post: 09-12-10, 07:15 PM
  3. Got a little problem trying to get close to an older girl
    By Cloud206 in forum Ask a Female Forum
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 06-06-10, 10:30 AM
  4. Replies: 4
    Last Post: 28-01-09, 04:28 PM
  5. Replies: 20
    Last Post: 01-09-06, 05:12 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •