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Thread: I am really sad (depressed?) right now..

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    I am really sad (depressed?) right now..

    I am a shy and introverted guy and spent most of my time playing video games. I don't have anyone to talk to, but I just want to tell someone..

    I fell in love with a girl in my accounting class, I had never felt this way about anyone and most of all I thought she liked me too. She asked me if I liked to partner up with her for an assignment. Of course I accepted. We also started going to lectures together and we would talk about random stuff like the k pop stars she liked.

    I wanted to make her happy so I did all the work on the assignment and spent hours checking over it to make sure she would get a good mark. I stopped playing games so I would get a good grade to impress her which I did topping the exam. Everyday I was just thinking about her...

    I thought she liked me and I really liked her so I decided to confess, which I did after the assignment. I sent her a message about it on fb but she never replied and the other day when we had class together I tried to talk to her but she said she was busy and had to go home. She now goes to lectures with another guy and has avoided me since.

    I really sad right now, can't do any work, I have lost so many hours just staring into space, feeling like I have no energy left in me. My heart hurts and tears well up in my eyes every so often. Exams are in 2 weeks but I can't study. I feel like she just pretended to like me so I would do all the work for her, its like I am a piece of toilet that people use and throw away.

    Thank you for taking a moment out of your busy day,
    I am really sorry you had to read such a long and poorly written post but I just don't know what to do...

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    Maybe she just doesn't feel the same way for you. If she doesn't like or love you, someone else will.

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    I'm very sorry to hear what you're going through right now. Maybe you misinterpreted her actions during the time when you both working the assignment. There are girls who are just naturally sweet and nice. Maybe she felt uncomfortable right after she read your message on FB. Be strong. Focus on your exam. Play computer again, it will help you divert your mind.

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    1) Go to doctor to prescribe you pills against bad mood. So you can start function again
    2) Talk to therapist or counselour
    3) Get a long with your work and increase activities.

    The problem is that you didnt had life purpose before you met this girl and your passion for life came together with her. Now when shes gone you dont know why to live anymore. But you have to start loving yourself and do it for yourself. There is bright future ahead of you and much better girls out there. You are just wasting time now and holding it all back. Next time ask girl out before you say you like her.

    This video might help you to chill a bit.
    [url]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA[/url]
    youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA
    Last edited by pcmaster; 01-12-15 at 09:38 AM.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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    Hi David,

    There will always be someone out there who will appreciate your time and efforts. If she didn't it's her loss and I really hope that you will meet this person soon in the mean time play some games! Do things you enjoy.
    Love is difficult, but we can make it easier to tackle by supporting each other.


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    Everyday I was just thinking about ...

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