My crush start talking to my best friend.

[dinaa]

One guy looks at me in college. A couple of times he laughed too. I thought he liked me in some way, but when my best friend added him on Facebook, he at first refused the request, then he added. Immediately he began to write to her, even though he knows that her has a boyfriend. Does he really like her, or maybe trying to get in some way to me, because he really showed signs that he likes me and watching me?!

[TheEvilJester]

I mean, I think you'd need a heck of a lot more evidence that what you have provided here to know the answer to either of your questions. In other words, whether he likes your friend, or whether or he likes you.

First off, you said your friend added HIM on the Facebook. HE didn't add HER first. Even if he HAD, that wouldn't necessarily automatically mean he liked her as anything more than a friend, but I'd at least say it was more evidence then her adding him first. Not only that, but you say he didn't add her back right away, but later changed his mind and decided to add her back. ....So, that sort of leans me towards thinking he DOESN'T like her as anything more than a friend, but even that is not evidence enough.

As for does he like you, we really can't even comment based on the very few details you shared. He could just be a friendly guy, or it is also possible he likes you. If you feel comfortable doing so, maybe just try a little subtle/innocent flirting to see if he responds favorably. That may give you some hints. Or just try to make excuses to talk to him more. If you can bring yourself to be so bold, maybe even just ask him out. That would be the best way to find out.

Bottom line, though, you really need more evidence to know one way or the other. Trust me, if you like him, you'd be better off knowing. If you just decide you are too shy to make any move, then you will just keep wondering what if. If you try and it doesn't go well, at least you know and you can move on more quickly and hopefully find the right guy the next time. However, if you try and it does go well, wouldn't you be kicking yourself for even considering not going for it?

Good luck to you!