The good times are over...

[disasterjohn]

Well, she broke up with me on the weekend. Been together for nearly 3 months. Everything was fine.. she was saying she loved me and holding hands etc etc up till the day she said "I dont have the same feelings anymore" and left.

She told me that on MSN too...took her ages to say it.. and she was physically sick at the time too because she was so nervous or whatever. Her friend was spun out that she had done that too.

Not sure what to think of it.... she got cold feet due to inexperience in relationships? or she really didnt have the same feelings anymore.

Question is.. should I wait a little and see what she does or just move on?

[Ellynn]

Move on. She made it clear that she didn't have the same feelings anymore. Yes it was crappy she broke up with you online....but she did get her point across...and you should realize that no matter what...its how she feels.

3 months may seem like a long time....but when you look at the big picture...its not long at all. Usually that seems to be the point where you start to get to know the person.....and then you realize if its gonna work or not. Obviously she feels it won't. Move on.

[Tone]

Listen to Ellynn, she is wise beyond her years.

[misombra]

listen to tone. he's a wise-ass.

[Tone]

Don't listen to mi sombra, she's a bully!!

[disasterjohn]

ive already started the healing process and moving on. will take a little but ive taken steps.

thanks guys and gals.

[TAVS]

Ever considered stalking?

[disasterjohn]

no.... not my style.