Advice...overweight chic

[Wakeup]

I ran into her and told her a long joke about God and an impossible wish " a man who wanted the wisdom to always say the right thing to a woman" ...to make it short God does not want to tackle that.
Anyway , she is talking to me again, we take walks around the neighborhood, I think she likes to escorted while she walks her dog...but I cannot get her to a commit to a date . ...I get stuff like , " I don't know you well enough"...."maybe after the holidays, I am busy with my sister."

So are you saying you can't even pull a chick that you think is desperate due to her weight?

[basilandthyme]

I ran into her and told her a long joke about God and an impossible wish " a man who wanted the wisdom to always say the right thing to a woman" ...to make it short God does not want to tackle that.
Anyway , she is talking to me again, we take walks around the neighborhood, I think she likes to escorted while she walks her dog...but I cannot get her to a commit to a date . ...I get stuff like , " I don't know you well enough"...."maybe after the holidays, I am busy with my sister."

That's because she has zero interest in dating you.

[dickriculous]

I don't know.... I have often wanted to blurt out "you have such a handsome face, if you could only become mute, you would be an attractive man." Would that be bad? lol

I actually got things like this from women quite a lot in my younger years. I also had a tendency to assume it meant they desperately wanted to fukk me (I pretty much interpreted everything a woman ever said to me to mean "I wanna wreck your dick" when I was 21) and man did I get in some SHIT with the wrong people at times

[relblogger]

Deary me, Sir.

I guess time will tell. I also think it will depend on how insecure she is. I'm quite chunky myself but if you were to call me all the derivations of chunky it wouldn't bother me. I'm comfortable with my appearance. Just go on as normal. If it makes you feel uncomfortable discuss it with her - what is there to lose?

You might also want to ask yourself why you are asking a woman out that you aren't attracted to. And you can give all the spiel about personality you want to, but there always has to be some level of physical attraction involved, at least for a man anyway

[TSD]

The physical attraction is this, facially she resembles an old girlfriend and her voice even sounds like her. Same height , hair color as well
(being 21 years older than her does not help)l

[lincslass29]

I'd say let this girl be! And find someone who likes all of who she is. If you like her as a friend then keep it that way! Don't ask her out if you're only happy with part of her!