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    Jealous

    Hey I like a girl alot. But I don't want to tell her YET.

    How can I stop feeling jealous when she is with other boys ?
    For example other boys putting her as their DP, talking to her alot....
    How can I prevent getting that goddamn jealous feeling

    Thanks

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    By asking her out on a date and then seeing if she likes you back enough to accept your invitation. If she says no, then stop following her on social media or any other means and set your sites on someone else.

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    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Why not now? It's better to get the feelings out into the open before you end up hurting yourself with jealousy more.
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    the problem is I am kinda stuck..... We didn't meet, ****

    my parents don't like me to meet other people that I talk to on my phone so I have to wait until I can get in my own car and drive

    so I know her well and she is really against and anti-online relationships

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    Quote Originally Posted by BenjiLane View Post
    the problem is I am kinda stuck..... We didn't meet, ****

    my parents don't like me to meet other people that I talk to on my phone so I have to wait until I can get in my own car and drive

    so I know her well and she is really against and anti-online relationships

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    Maybe it's for the best if you distance yourself from her then (not follow her as much on social media, talk to her less, etc), while you're still young and have to follow your parents rules. It hurts, it's not fair, but maybe it's for the best.

    You're getting attached to her because you have an idea of what she's like in real life and you can't hang out with her, since that won't happen due to your parents rules, it's best to stop the heartache while you still can before you really end up hurt.
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    [MENTION=82172]BenjiLane[/MENTION]

    How old are you?

    I don't know if I should say this, but depending on your situation... I think maybe you should follow your heart. Again, this depends entirely on your current situation.
    I'll be there, there for you (I'll stay close to you)
    I'll be true, true to you (I'll stay faithful)
    All day, all night (I'll do all for you, all you ask me to)
    I'll be there by your side! (All day, all night I'll be there, by your side!)

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    The more you pull time
    the harder you will
    Talk to her
    and invite her out on a date

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    Jealous

    Quote Originally Posted by BenjiLane View Post
    Hey I like a girl alot. But I don't want to tell her YET.

    How can I stop feeling jealous when she is with other boys ?
    For example other boys putting her as their DP, talking to her alot....
    How can I prevent getting that goddamn jealous feeling

    Thanks
    There's nothing wrong actually with getting jealous...It is a normal feeling which means you are a normal person. What is preventing you from reaching her? You wont know if you wont try... Anyways, this is an old post that I am replying to, and if you ever get to visit this site again, it would be great to hear from you of the update about this jealousy thing of yours. Thanks.

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