Affair Question

[TSD]

Will a woman that has been in a 30 year marriage...have an affair with her first love,...if she is still in love with her husband?
Is this possible? Or does it seem only likely if she is in a loveless marriage , perhaps one of convenience?

[breathe123]

If someone has been faithful for 30 yrs to the same person ~ no, unless something drastic happens, they would probably still remain faithful & you shouldn't push otherwise.

[Wakeup]

Why do YOU want to know?

[TSD]

She is the aggressor. I am single. I am perplexed and have avoided the social scene where I see her. But, I am curious simply about her marriage. It would seem to me if she was in love with her husband she would not be so amorous towards me....
Additional facts: she has serious breast cancer. May not live long.
her husband has had cancer for years but is in remission, he is skinny
and very anemic looking (my guess, probably impotent).
Our teenage love story had sex but was never consummated.
This was because of MY religious convictions.

[breathe123]

I'd say let someone else fall into her adultery spider web and be caught ~ don't let it be you.

[3monthmark]

For the love of pete, please stay away from married people. If they want to end their marriage of their own accord and seek your comfort, they will. Otherwise, hands off!