So I've had a male friend for many, many years.
I can talk to him about anything and he's always there if I need to chat about something or nothing!
Years ago he said that he could take this relationship further but didn't want to lose our friendship if anything went wrong (he was going through a divorce at the time). He jokes how we will be married one day etc
I have being single for a year now and he knows all the things I've been through with my ex.
How do I let him know how I feel about him without blurting it out or getting hurt myself?