My boyfriend says he will break up with me if i don't do this for him again?

[jamiepark]

We were going out to eat. He made me give him a bj in the parking lot before we went in. And he told me to hold his sperm in my mouth until we went in and to swallow it right before I ordered. This was like 15 minutes! He knows I hate the taste of sperm. I had so much saliva build up it made it taste a lot worse, normally I would have not be able to but the waiter was looking at me so there was no way I was going to spit it up in front of him so I had to force it down. I had to swallow twice to get it all down because there was so much fluid in my mouth. I gagged really bad and I think the waiter knew what I was doing. I felt so degraded over this I wanted to cry, I couldn't look my waiter in the eye after that.


I want to make my boyfriend happy so I try to always do whatever he wants. But I hated this so much and he is demanding I do it again. I don't want to lose him. Can someone tell me how to convince him not to make me do it? Or does anyone know how I could make it easier to swallow next time?


Please help, I posted this on 2 forums already and they just blocked it. I really need advice

[dontaskme]

Hmm... I don't know who's sicker, you or your bf.

Tell him you will only swallow if he kisses you on the mouth with his sperm in it right before swallowing... in the restaurant, that is.

[amj1979]

I would caution you to evaluate why you "don't want to lose him." Anyone who forces you to do something you don't like is not a good person. If your boyfriend truly cares about you he would let it go immediately. Making you give him a BJ right before dinner is not appropriate, and then what he demanded after that is just degrading. This guy may have some good qualities, but I can't imagine how any of them would outweigh what you just described. And I'm sure there are other things he's made you do in the past. The other thing is, you don't have to do anything you don't want to. Your boyfriend can't make you do something, and you need to have the self-respect to stand up to him. If he doesn't respect your wishes, he's not the right guy for you. It's as simple as that. You're worth a lot more than what your boyfriend is giving you credit for.

[Chillaxer]

Listen to yourself. You're being so lame. 'I always do what he wants' 'don't want to lose him' etc.
Why don't you respect yourself and get a man who does the same, that is borderline behaviour even for a 5 minute relationship. You're letting him walk on you.

[breathe123]

BF doesn't love you, only wants to control you. SET BOUNDARIES, as of now you have none you are his puppet, respect yourself & find a better person to be with.

Also, tell him a firm NO, next time & leave & go home.

[Illusional]

haha if you're going to allow your bf to make all of your decisions for you then you'll never have the knowledge or power to break up with him on your own. ask your mommy or daddy for help.... OR grow some balls and tell him what's on your mind.


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[Wakeup]

We were going out to eat. He made me give him a bj in the parking lot before we went in. And he told me to hold his sperm in my mouth until we went in and to swallow it right before I ordered. This was like 15 minutes! He knows I hate the taste of sperm. I had so much saliva build up it made it taste a lot worse, normally I would have not be able to but the waiter was looking at me so there was no way I was going to spit it up in front of him so I had to force it down. I had to swallow twice to get it all down because there was so much fluid in my mouth. I gagged really bad and I think the waiter knew what I was doing. I felt so degraded over this I wanted to cry, I couldn't look my waiter in the eye after that.


I want to make my boyfriend happy so I try to always do whatever he wants. But I hated this so much and he is demanding I do it again. I don't want to lose him. Can someone tell me how to convince him not to make me do it? Or does anyone know how I could make it easier to swallow next time?


Please help, I posted this on 2 forums already and they just blocked it. I really need advice

You should break up with him and get with the guy in that other thread that ****s his male dog in the bung hole. You'd make a better couple.

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Hmm... I don't know who's sicker, you or your bf.

Tell him you will only swallow if he kisses you on the mouth with his sperm in it right before swallowing... in the restaurant, that is.

That's known as a "snow ball." Only she must pass it into his mouth.

[morrowrd]

I probably shouldn't be responding, this post almost sounds fake. In the spirit of giving the benefit of the doubt, I will say that your boyfriend doesn't love you, nor care about you. He's being selfish and indulging himself with sick control games, probably some fantasy drummed up from watching too much porn.

A man who loves you, will make you feel safe. Will make you feel precious. This guy? The exact opposite is happening. Get rid of him and ask yourself to start setting the bar higher.

[JPK]

Please do yourself a favour and leave him. Nobody deserves to be with a person who forces you to do things in their favour which also hurts you.

[LegendaryGochu]

Your boyfriend sounds like an insecure lame who feeds off of power trips by controlling weak women. You sound like you're undesirable and have no other options than this loser. Save yourself and leave the relationship. Develop some independence so you don't act like a clingy little rat gnawing on a turnip.

[pcmaster]

Dont worry you wont get blocked on this forum. Daddy is gone most of the time so kids are doing what they want in da house lol.

Your topic name reminded me the start of justin beiber song Love Yourself. he says at the beginning." Love isnt do this for me and Im gona do this for you. Thats not what love is. Love is Im gona this for you cause Im gona do this for you."

I can tell that you are young but you will learn. Dont be afraid to lose your BF. Otherwise you might start to feel that you dont belong to yourself anymore.