Are looks that important to guys when finding someone though.

[asiangal555]

I am a avg looking girl ya. I haven't found someone to be with me though. I am sad about that. I was wondering if most guys wants a girl mostly for her looks though. Is that why I still don't have anyone though. Or what kind of personality do guys want in someone though. Any advice would be cool. Thanks.

[Jffs24]

I need to be attracted to the person I am dating -- to me that is normal. They need to have a good personality too, and not a clinger. I want someone, clever, funny and can discuss anything, at anytime and never feel awkward.

[TheEvilJester]

Both men and women are going to want to date somebody they find attractive. That is just a fact of life. There isn't necessarily anything wrong with that. Sure, there are some people who are superficial and shallow in what they do and do not find attractive, but most people just have their own personal tastes in what they do or do not.

The good news, though, is that it is very varying and subjective. So, maybe you think you are average looking, but to some guys you will be the absolute image of what they find attractive. Heck, chances are there have been plenty of guys who found you very attractive, but you just never knew about it. Hell, I can vouch for that. (I mean, not for you specifically since I don't know you, but in general) I am so ridiculously shy that if/when I DO like a gal, she'd pretty much never know it. I'm too shy to do anything about it, even so much as to just talk to her.

Anyway, you WILL find a guy some day who will find you attractive. Don't change yourself hoping that will attract more guys. Don't get me wrong, if there are ways you wish to improve yourself FOR YOU, then go ahead and do that. I would absolutely never suggest against personal growth. But, do it for you. When you become more confident in yourself, people will be more likely to gravitate to you.

Good luck!