Would you meet someone only after msg with them for a few times though.

[asiangal555]

I have only msg with a guy for a few times ya. He already wants to meet me though. I don't think I know him well enough yet ya. Why would he already want to try spend time with me. I don't know if hes the type I am looking for yet. Is it ok for me to already go meet him though. Any advice would be cool. Thanks.

[TheEvilJester]

I mean, I will start off by saying that I definitely agree with you that I wouldn't personally feel ready to meet somebody after only messaging with them a few times. For me personally, I at least want to message back and forth for a little bit to get to know somebody before I decide if it is worth meeting in person. Granted, you also shouldn't drag it on for TOO long or the person could lose interest or even think you've lost interest and move on.

So, if you feel like it is too soon.... then it is too soon. Really, you could feel free to just be honest about it. Just saying something like "I'd really like that, but I usually prefer to get to know somebody a little better online first. So, let's keep that in mind for sometime soon." There's nothing wrong with not being quite ready, especially if you put it in a way so as to show that you ARE interested, you just aren't quite at that point YET.

If he can't understand that, then there is a good chance that either he's a jerk or he was just considering a "hook up" so he wanted to move things along. If he's understanding about that, then that is a good sign that maybe he is actually interested in more than just a fling.

Bottom line, though, no matter how long or short you've known somebody online, the first few times you meet them in person, always do so somewhere highly populated. It is just best for your safety not to be completely alone with a person you don't really know. Once you feel comfortable with them in person, you can start to relax on that, but it is always best to play it safe early on. Good luck!