I have split up from my husband which was a year ago and have started dating a new guy. We have been dating for 3 months and I'm now struggling with my emotions towards him. We have a great connection, a lot in common but traits from my last relationship are creeping in and I now keep pushing him away. I can't completely let him in without worrying that He won't like me as much when he actually knows everything about me my past. But I think I expect more emotionally from him. I don't think I actually know how to just have a boyfriend?