would bad sex ruin a guys chance?

[jasonc88]

I had a date last weekend and we had sex. It was awful though. well no awful but i couldnt hold my load in because i was so turned on. then i couldnt get it up again because i was so embrassed.

she was like "you left me wet and lonely" but didnt seem to upset. she has talked to me every day since and said she would like to go on another date

do you think ill be ok?

[topazlight]

Yes, she is willing to give it another try, so try not to worry about the last time and just enjoy her company.

[smarta$$]

Son't be a bonehead! You can still deliver pleasure after you've blown your load. Don't be a selfish SOB, and she will probably give you a chance to improve your performance.

[melancholia]

Most women are understanding if the first time doesn't go the way you'd hoped. Having sex with a new person is always both exciting and nerve wracking. Discovering each other's likes and dislikes can take some time. I agree with smarta$$ that you should try and give her more pleasure, even if you orgasm quickly. You can still go down on her afterward, or what would be better, would be to start with more foreplay at the top of the sex session, so that both of you come out of it feeling satisfied.

[Fuzzyfeeling]

Be sure to take some toys with you as a backup in case you couldnt free willy 2. You'll thank me.

[smackie9]

Dude! give her g spot stimulation that will give her the biggest O she's ever had! There are plenty of videos on how to do it. Get with it.

[melancholia]

Clitoral stimulation yields a more intense orgasm than g-spot stimulation.

[smackie9]

Clitoral stimulation yields a more intense orgasm than g-spot stimulation.

That is false. If you know what you are doing it can make most squirt and have a deeper more intense full body experience.

[melancholia]

I don't know where you get your facts; but you are incorrect. It's been studied, and proven, that squirting is just pee. While g-spot stimulation can help a woman achieve orgasm, studies upon studies have revealed that direct clitoral stimulation from fingers, tongue, sex toys etc. yield better orgasm results in women. All you need to do is google it, my friend.