where do i go from here?

[jasonc88]

Had a second date last night. The girl does seem interested in me. She lives 90 minutes away

We went to a basketball game then dinner. She took a pic of us and sent it to her mom and Her mom said "omg he is kind of cute!" she wa salso very touch feely. han in my hand, arm around my arm

While we were eating dinner we talked about what we look for in a relationship. I mentioned how I'm not into games and she said "I'm not leading you on. I don't want to be in a relationship with you.Its nothing about you, I just am focused on school"

I was shocked because it looked like she had interest in me(saying how she was excited to see me, or saying i miss you). So when we got back to my place I asked her "so what was the whole i dont want to be in a relationship with you "talk about? Are you saying you have no interest at all?

She said "I have 6 weeks left of school and I'm done. I have been in school for 5 years and I;m focusing on finishing. Then I'm taking time to myself. Right now I don't want anything with anyone until I finish school, so I can't really say what will happen betwen su but from now till school ends i dont want anything with nayone. But I will tell you I like you and am attracted to you"


So where do I go from here?

[megvoh]

Don't be put on hold, you are on two different pages, find someone who is on your same page.

[RainbowDestiny9]

Explain that you're willing to take things slowly and see how it goes.

[Guevana81]

If you really truly want her, wait until she is done with school an see what happens. If you don't want to wait, then move on. Either way, time will keep ticking.